Journeys of a Catholic Poster Girl

“Our faith needs to be the North Star of our lives. Our behavior needs to match our words.” –Archbishop Charles Chaput

LOTR begins!

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 12:30 pm on Saturday, December 30, 2006

I have begun The Fellowship of the Ring , and, I must admit, I am enjoying it much more than I ever thought possible. It is very interesting to compare what the movie did with the characters as opposed to Tolkien’s original conceptions (i.e., Sam as servant, etc. ). And, of course, some of the dialogue is just hysterical. I have read 100 pages (got the books last night) and will continue to read on. I am abandoning my usual practice of the “plow-through” and am instead reading slowly and thoughtfully the first time through, which I usually do not do. Usually I just try to get the thing down in one big gulp.

Will keep you informed…

Saddam’s execution

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 12:28 pm on Saturday, December 30, 2006

Well, I can’t really say, in all honesty, that I’m upset he’s dead. The man killed who knows how many people and tortured countless others. It’s not like he was really bringing Joy to the World, or anything. I know the Church’s stance on capital punishment, but in my mind the country and the people are safer knowing that he’s not around anymore. Maybe that’s just me. In any event, I’m not going to waste tears on him.

Merry Christmas!

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 11:10 am on Monday, December 25, 2006

Merry Christmas, everyone!!

I hope you all had a glorious Christmas Eve and had fun at Mass. Our Mass went wonderfully–the Haydn rocked , and we were so proud!–and the Messiah pieces also went well. It can be hard to gauge the quality of sound since you’re listening and surrounded by everyone, but we got a lot of nice compliments so I’m assuming it went well. But the Haydn just rocked. I am so proud that we got that down. Woohoo!!

Christmas morning here began at 8:00 and the Christmas Carnage began. :) After the gifts we had Mom’s great Christmas breakfast of Pillsbury Cinnamon rolls and sausage links (mmmmm…if my blood sugar was low before breakfast–which it kind of was–it isn’t now!) and coffee that I made for me and my siblings. Currently Dad and Bryan are setting up his new MacBook (I am sooooo jealous! I want one!) and Mel is being George Lucas with her Santa-given videocamera. I have been immersing myself in the new Pride and Prejudice gift set, which includes 3 DVDs (a bonus disc!) and the making-of book, which is very enjoyable. I am also looking forward to ravaging The Silver Spoon , the Italian cooking Bible with more than 2,000 (yes, 2,000 ) recipes. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm…..so much good food, so little time….

DeArdo family christmas

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 10:55 am on Sunday, December 24, 2006

“Clark! Audrey’s frozen!”
“All part of the experience, honey.”
–National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation

So, you may ask, what exactly does a DeArdo family Christmas entail?

Well since I’ve started singing Midnight Mass (Mom used to sing it when we were little, but we didn’t all go together), that’s the Mass we haul ourselves to. That means dinner is around 5, 6:00…mom starts the baking festivities in the am, usually around 10 or so (as I write the marble cakes have been baked and smell yum-o….mmmmmmmm). We usually have ham, a pasta bake, some potatoes (we’re Irish, come on), bread (mmmmmm) and this year we have a jell-o/pretzel concoction, which I’m sure will be good (Mom’s a Heilmann, and all Heilmann events must have some sort of jell-o thing. It’s a rule or something.). We will also have sparkling red/white grape juice (yeah, OK, Emily can’t drink the good stuff right now, give me a break) and then the cakes and cookies Mom’s made over the past few weeks post-Mass.

The gifts have alredy been placed under the tree, divided into recepient piles so that no one accidentally opens someone else’s gift and causes confusion/havoc in the wee hours.

After dinner, we usually watch some sort of Christmas-y movie, like A Christmas Story , which we all love. I am also partial to Meet Me In St. Louis since it has one of the best Christmas songs ever, Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas , and Judy Garland looks so great, sitting there in her red velvet dress (mmm) singing it to Margaret O’Brien. Great stuff. AMC or TCM usually has it on, so check if you don’t own the DVD. But we love A Christmas Story. We watch it all the time…I’ve probably be watching it several times a Christmas season since I was about 6. Great, great movie. I don’t care what anyone else says.

Around 9 or so we’ll probably start to change into our Mass clothes, and I’ll get my music ready. I’m sure a nap will happen this afternoon so I don’t fall asleep tonight. At 10:15, I’ll leave and my parents will show up sometime before 11:15, when we will start our program with the fantastic Haydn.

Yeah, I’m excited. :) :) Good times!

One down…

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 10:53 am on Sunday, December 24, 2006

and goal to go!

Sang the 9:00 Mass at SPX, which went pretty well. We actually had a nice-sized crowd; not as many as the 10:15 but more than the 8:30. Before Mass ended, Fr. Ochs (our pastor) made an appeal to us to help move the billions of poinsettias from the Bride’s Room to the sanctuary to help get ready for Christmas, as the first Vigil Mass is at 4:00. Nice to see so many people helping…we come when we’re called!! Hopefully they can get the rest of the church ready in time.

I have to be at church by 10:45 but, knowing me, I will probably leave the house at 10:15 to 1) get good parking and 2) get there early to whip my troops into shape. :) Not that we need it, at this point. The time for practicing is gone, and now we just have to have fun with the music we’ve been working since August!

I will blog tonight/tomorrow morning and let you know how it goes…I know you are all breathless with anticipation. :)

Awesome Mary picture

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 10:47 am on Sunday, December 24, 2006

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Check that out…it is awesome.

Swimming with scapulars

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 9:39 pm on Wednesday, December 20, 2006

OK, I’ve read it again, and confirmed my first impression: good book. However, there is a point I’d like to quibble with re: music in Mass.

I agree w/ Matthew that waaaayyy too much of the music has gone 1) prosaic 2) too “teen pop” and 3) boring. Glory and Praise has some nice tunes, but too many of them are just 1970s quasi-pop junk we need to stop singing. Let us move on and sing more of the “Warhorses”–”Holy, Holy, Holy” , “Holy God We Praise Thy Name”, “Be Thou My Vision”, “The Church’s One Foundation”, etc. Nothing wrong with sappy; sappy can be good. For example, I love “Here I Am, Lord.” Great tune. I like “On Eagle’s Wings.” But there have been one too many singings of “Though the Mountains May Fall.” And for the love of Pete, can we sing Advent songs during Advent? And Lent songs during Lent?? Please?

Anyway, to my quibble: Matthew talks about his issues with the choir singing up front, as opposed to in a choir loft, applause from the congregation when a song is over, and the idea that it’s more of a “performance” than anything else. Now I obviously cannot speak for all choirs and I am sure that in some places this happens. But let me relay my experience.

First off, my church was built post Vatican II. There is no choir loft. We used to sit on the altar but then we got a new pastor and he vetoed that. So now we sit in a section of pews by the organ. The problem with this is that our sound is affected because we’re basically singing to a wall. The congregation really can’t hear us, or at least not the way we’re intended to be heard. For some numbers we did go “up front”, and that worked. The congregation liked it. But then it got vetoed. So now we’re back to the pews for everything and we have to do all sorts of fancy mic work to make sure we can be heard. Which means spending money on good mics. It would make a lot more sense to just have us up front and eschew all the fancy-schmancy technology, or at least some of it, because we wouldn’t need it anymore.

People who are not musicians tend to downgrade how much work it is being in a choir/band/orchestra, whatever. They assume we practice, but they don’t know the intensity of it. Our choir rehearses at least and hour and a half a week. The closer we got to Christmas, the longer practice got. Sometimes we are beginning at 7:15 and rehearsing until 10:00 or later. Not much later, and not often, but it does happen. We put a lot of effort into every piece we sing, and we do sing one choral piece every week. For Christmas we’re singing a piece from Haydn’s Creation and several movements of Handle’s Messiah . We’ve been having twice a week practices since October to prepare. This is not fluff stuff. Our families know how much we practice, but the general congregation? Who knows. So if we’re going to put all this effort into it, it’s nice to have some appreciation. The congregation doesn’t clap very often (we do two pieces that are guaranteed applause) but when they do, we appreciate it. We are there to help them worship. It’s not like we’re there to satisfy our humungeous egos. Some of us are classically-trained, some of us can’t read music. But it takes a lot of work and commitment to do what we do. And a lot of the time, people just don’t get it. If the congregation wants to applaud, heck, I’m not going to stop them.

This Christmas, take some time to appreciate any special music your parish does. I am positive they put a lot of work into it. And tell them if you liked it!! We like to know we’re not just singing to the walls. :)

bookshelf

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 10:00 pm on Monday, December 18, 2006

Some new arrivals at the Emily library:

Swimming with Scapulars: Confessions of a Young Catholic : Just got this one today with a few other Amazon books. By Matthew Lickona, it’s a memoir of growin gup Catholic, how his faith has shaped him, trials he has with faith, etc. It’s refreshing honesty is very nice. It can be a bit sporadic and disjointed, but I kind of like that, since memoirs that tend to be strictly linear in their construction can be boring. He touches on all sorts of topics from Novus Ordo, The DaVinci Code, music at Mass, holding hands during the Our Father, and parenthood. He’s 31, so I guess that still fits the “young” definition. Good first read, hope to get more insight the second time through.

I also got:
Cooking with the Saints from Ignatius Press: pretty self-explanatory. A great cookbook with patron saints, information about them and recipes associated with them. Lots of breads and desserts, and lots of German and Austria recipes. Some of them look really fantastic. There’s even a recipe for suckling pig!!

Catholic Education:Homeward Bound by Kimberly Hahn (Scott’s wife) and Mary Hasson. Since David and I like the idea of homeschooling (fitting in with our somewhat “crunchy” ideas), I thought I’d read this to get a leg up. I just started so I can’t tell you too much yet, but anything Kimberly Hahn writes is good. :)

I am also going to start reading the LOTR books, due to some insightful posting over at Cubeland Mystic (link in the list) about which character you feel you are most like. There’s been some really great discussion over there and I want to enter it intelligently, not just with movie knowledge, which, as we know, can be very, very wrong (although I don’t think it’s as wrong with LOTR as it was with, say, Troy . I will keep you posted.

Gaudete Sunday!

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 10:46 am on Sunday, December 17, 2006

Happy Gaudete Sunday, everyone!

OK, I bet half of you are looking at that going, “uh, Emily, it’s the third Sunday of Advent. What the heck are you talking about?”

It is the Third Sunday of Advent. But it is also Gaudete Sunday. Ever wonder why the priest wears rose garments today? Why we have a pink candle admidst all the purple in the wreath? Well I am about to you my Catholic Education and tell you. :)

“Gaudete” Sunday is a derivitative of “Rejoice!”, which comes from today’s second reading (one of my favorites, by the way):
Philippians 4:4-7

Brothers and sisters: rejoice in the Lord always. I say it again: rejoice! Your kindness should be known to all. The LORD is near. Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

As my seventh-grade teacher told us, if Paul is telling us to “rejoice!” twice, he means it! We are almost done with Advent, the peninential season is almost over! Christ is about to be born! We should be happy about this! That’s why we see the pink candle..the somber purple shades are warming into the sunshine of our redemption. We should “have no anxiety at all” (clearly, Paul didn’t have to Christmas shop!). And we celebrate that by changing the colors. Coincidentially, the Fourth Sunday of Lent (called Laertae Sunday) is the same principle.

On a somewhat non-related note: purple candles are to be used in advent wreaths because of their penitential connotation. So many churches (including, sadly, Catholic ones) are going to blue because it’s less penitential. Um, that’s the whole point of the season–to prepare ourselves for the coming of Christ. That’s why we have penance services, why the readings tend to be so dour and focuses on preparing ourselves for the coming of Christ. We can’t forget the real meaning of Advent–it’s not just the countdown to Christmas. There is some preparation that (should) go into it.

Housekeeping: be sure to check out Amy Welborn’s blog today–a great Gaudete Sunday Angelus meditation from BXVI. Today is also the day we start the “O Antiphons” and she’s got a link to that, too! So check it out.

Meeting Fr. Barry

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 12:00 pm on Friday, December 15, 2006

I met the new Children’s chaplain yesterday, Fr. Barry, who seemed really nice. I believe he spent some time in London, and he’s African, and I’ve always like African priests. There’s just something about their spirituality that I really connect with. He’s a lot of fun, soft-spoken but good.

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